Tuesday, November 3, 2009

5 Simple Tips to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back and Save Your Relationship

After a breakup it takes work to save your relationship, but these tips can help you get your ex boyfriend back for good.

Many people do not know how to go about getting their ex boyfriend back because they usually aren't prepared for it when it happens and don't know what they need to do to fix the relationship.  It's not like life comes with an instruction book for these things.

1.  Get Rid of Your Negative Thoughts

If you want to get your ex boyfriend back and save your relationship, you're going to have to get your head straight.  Get yourself together by ridding yourself of negative thoughts.  Rather than feeling sorry for yourself, find the strength to stop your emotions from keeping you down.

2.  Focus on the Present

There is no sense pouring energy into the past.  What's done is done.  The relationship you once had is over and you need to let it go.  Thankfully the relationship you're capable of rebuilding can be much stronger than the former one ever was.  Focus on what you have to work with now and use the foundation of your relationship to build a new one and save the parts of the relationship that are still intact.

3.  Refrain From Pestering and Obsessing

No guy likes it when a girl obsesses over them.  This is especially true of guys and their girlfriends, particularly when the relationship is on the rocks or you've just split up.  If you really want to save the relationship and get your ex boyfriend back, you need to do the opposite of what you feel like doing and just give him some space.  Give him time and space to realize what he's missing.  Smothering him will only make it harder in the long run to get him back.

4.  Make Yourself Irresistible

Pamper yourself and treat yourself to a new haircut, a manicure or a little shopping spree.  Keep yourself healthy and fit.  When you take care of yourself well and feel good about yourself, you will radiate confidence.  This is irresistible to men and when your ex boyfriend sees that you're strong and content, he'll be drawn to you like a moth to a flame.

5.  Take it Slow

Following steps 1-4 will most likely get your ex boyfriend to at least notice you and see you in a new light if not run back to you and fall to his knees!  When he does start to get in touch with you, minimize physical contact and don't spring to let him back in your life immediately.  Don't just jump back into the relationship.  If you truly want to get your ex boyfriend back and save the relationship, you need to take it slow.

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